Wednesday, October 4, 2017

we must love ourselves if we're ever to love another. 

Why You Should Put Yourself First | Oprah's Life Class ... - YouTube

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Find out why Iyanla says you have to be good to yourself first. ... Just think, if a person needs something, he ...

Searching for love to escape ourselves | Hayley Quinn - YouTube

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Unconditional positive regard -- the power of self acceptance - YouTube

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If only it were shown at parents nights with the teaching professionals involved as ... In order to love others we ...

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My Gratitude Links from God =got them back..with God's Help!!

Forgiving others and ourselves John Bradshaw -YouTubes














I like not only to be loved, but also to be told that I am loved . . . the realm of silence is large enough beyond the grave.--George Eliot

We've all heard many times that we must love ourselves if we're ever to love another. Too often we mistakenly think that means we shouldn't need to hear someone's affirmation of love. That assumption is wrong. Praise from others builds our self-confidence, keeps us on track, aware of how we're presenting ourselves moment by moment.

But many of us didn't develop healthy egos in our youth because we didn't get feedback that affirmed us. We didn't hear we were loved. As adults, we're scrambling to feel confident, to feel sure of our direction and our value to society. And we're hoping to hear we're loved. We can be certain someone close will be helped by hearing our words of love.

There's no time like the present for sharing love.

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Monday, October 2, 2017

always hope for renewal in our relationships when we are willing 


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My Gratitude Links from God =got them back..with God's Help!!

Forgiving others and ourselves John Bradshaw -YouTubes















always hope for renewal in our relationships when we are willing 

THE EVOLVING RELATIONSHIP

.... open up to hope and new possibilities...


Some mornings we may awaken filled with thoughts of what is wrong in our lives. Perhaps we obsess about our failures or the limits of our relationships. If we let ourselves sink into self-loathing, we build a wall that separates us from those things that nurture us and give us joy.

When we awaken to the living and growing world, our spirits lift and open up to hope and new possibilities. Walking along an old sidewalk or across an abandoned parking lot, we see cracks in the concrete or asphalt and new green growth pushing through. Where there is enough soil to hold a seed, there is the possibility of a tree someday. The universe seizes opportunities for renewal that slip through the slightest opening. There is always hope for renewal in our relationships when we are willing to plant the seeds and feed them so they can grow.

Name an experience that has shown you the seeds for new growth.

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