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Should everybody like me?
When people say they are people-pleasers, they're acknowledging that it's a problem.
It's a problem because it reflects a desire to have everybody's acceptance and approval - to be universally liked. But from what we know about human relationships, this is not possible. No matter how hard we work to be pleasant and likeable, some people may still detest us for reasons we cannot understand. When that happens, we should not blame ourselves or step up our efforts to win them over. Our best course is to be cordial to them and to avoid giving offense in any way.
If our own behavior is mature and reasonable, even the people who don't like us will at least respect us. That may be the best we can hope for, and it is certainly far better than shameless people pleasing. In the end, people-pleasers don't please anybody and, as a famous comedian notes about himself, they "get no respect."
I'll try hard to be pleasant and cordial to everyone I meet today. If some people do not respond in the same way, I'll accept this without feeling hurt or betrayed.
When people say they are people-pleasers, they're acknowledging that it's a problem.
It's a problem because it reflects a desire to have everybody's acceptance and approval - to be universally liked. But from what we know about human relationships, this is not possible. No matter how hard we work to be pleasant and likeable, some people may still detest us for reasons we cannot understand. When that happens, we should not blame ourselves or step up our efforts to win them over. Our best course is to be cordial to them and to avoid giving offense in any way.
If our own behavior is mature and reasonable, even the people who don't like us will at least respect us. That may be the best we can hope for, and it is certainly far better than shameless people pleasing. In the end, people-pleasers don't please anybody and, as a famous comedian notes about himself, they "get no respect."
I'll try hard to be pleasant and cordial to everyone I meet today. If some people do not respond in the same way, I'll accept this without feeling hurt or betrayed.
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To my Brother James
(holding his bear-I'm the Oldest)
27yrs. old Gentle Artist Who Was Gay
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Dear Ellen,
They Call Me:
Ny9-11CanadianAngel
& Carolyn Everett-McRae
Writer, Artist & Student of Robert Batman
etc!! Adhd,LD, Indigo,Survior,Dreamer.LOL etc.
To help 12 Step Teen : Kids 12StepChurch4Teens @12Steps4Teens
GodNotGuilt!4U&Urs LifeCoach,Counselor-Addiction/Pet&ArtTherapist,Hypnosis,12StepTeenAngels,
Canada/USA&U! LIKE ME!!!
They call me “Ny 9-11 Canadian Angel” that was on CNN and in the the New Papers-
Trying to get back home to Van. BC-
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Starting Over Again etc.
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Help my Society with The Dream of Hope!!
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I am Starting this in Honor of my Brother James
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He was a 27yr old Gay JW- Not Good!
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That is a Good thing!!
Yours truly, Care/Carolyn)))))00((((Hugs)))))
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To share The Dream with Me!!
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City
Claresholm,bc,ns, Alberta
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68 year old Woman, 5' 7" (170cm), Non-Religious
Ethnicity
Caucasian Pisces with Brown hair
Intent
RVingSnowbird4U Wants to find someone to marry
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The Power of Positive thinking by Tony Robbins-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWFObD9XsmE,
I Volunteer and at Ground Zero too! Just got my Ordained Ministers Certificate! I could Marry You!!! Lol ;-)
Artist/writer.Published Books!! Self Help Writing Books4Teens,http://AAA12StepC.C.C.Society.googlepages.com/home
http://www.amazon.ca/s/ref=nb_sb_noss/186-3495481-5727637?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=ny-9-11canadianangel
Family History/Back Ground= High German, Kings (Black Forest),http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_rulers_of_Bavaria
Scotish with a Family Castle too,LOL -http://www.eileandonancastle.com/ and Hull,Yorkshire,UK
Same Bloodlines as Elizabeth IISome of the same Problems, too!! LOL
Dreamer!! I am spiritual, Not Religious!!! God/Higher Power not Guilt.Believe in the power of Prayer!!! Love to Dance, laugh,too!!
..Would be nice if you were mechanical, too. LOL Be My"Lone Ranger & Help me get out of Dodge"!!!
Go South tooooooooo, Cold in the winter. Hate shoveling snow. Out West BC/LasVegas/East
In the process of MOVING West to my BEST friends in Claresholm, Alberta who are not well and
visit but not live with my 90yr. Mother and brother in Powell River, BC. or my friends in Calgary.
I am from Marine Dr., White Rock, BC. Have a widowed sister in Peterborough, Ontario who I phone everyday.
My brother owns a trucking business in ONT. and like me loves travelling.
Been to Japan, crossed the States 6 times. Love my pets/fireplaces.Watching ELLEN & ETC.> UTube>British Movies, BBC TV shows,Comedy, Dramas etc.Hoping I can find someone who is like me.
Like to talk on the phone with YOU>Ph# Pls. We can use Googletalk or Majicjack.com -both work on the internet all over the World...
No Negative Thinking or Players,Romancescamers etc. Facial hair-Beards?? ?
"I don't think you're suddenly going to begin to look at the world with new eyes when you're 80 if you haven't been doing it when you're 30".
-Janice Clark We are creatures of habit as evidenced by our getting stuck in old viewpoints long after they have quit serving us. However, that fact doesn't restrict us for all time. Any-time we want to cultivate a new idea, an alternative approach to a situation, we are free to do so, we are capable of freshening our perspective at any age. We have all known some elderly men and women who have the spirit and enthusiasm of the very young. Unfortunately, we have also known the reverse. How sad to observe the forty or fifty year old person who has quit living. Their whining belies their age. Who will we be? The choice is always available to us. And we can remake it as often as we wish. What a relief to know that if we're old and resentful today, we still have the opportunity to be young and full of laughter tomorrow. We maybe can't do everything we used to do, but this decision is still in our power. I will open my eyes to whatever I choose to see today. Yesterday's experiences have only the power I give them.
Want to buy a bigger RV. Drive on H2O, Solar, Propane, Gas34 foot Tour Bus to Cross America without gasoline.
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Irondmax,http://hhocarcellkit.mikerosepro.com/tag/ironmax/,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=481vND02lZ4&feature=youtu.be
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HHO Spark Plug Part 1,2,3,4-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9NvboKL43Q&feature=player_embedded
http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&feature=fvwp&v=D3nPa7Y7EBs. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gDX_vVnBc5M
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RQNrFUnQmnw,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgOjT96GIzI
Something I'll have to look into in a near future.Earthship to live in.Nevada and Canada Summer! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2F1YSP2f_U http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2so9hyNWxc,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkbHR16FGpE,
MY MEDITATION FOR TODAY,. IS SPOT ON!! Love doesn't just sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread — re-made all the time, made new.--Ursula K. Le Guin We love to be loved; we love to be held; we love to be caressed. A show of appreciation we love too. And we love to know we've been heard. The friends, the spouses, the children in our lives want the same from us. Like a garden that needs water, sun, weeding to nurture the growth, so does love need attending to. To become whole and healthy people, we need tender nurturing. And we also need to give away what we get. Those we nurture will bless our growth. Love is dynamic, not static. It is always changing, and it always changes those it enfolds. Since coming into this program where the sharing of oneself, the open expression of love, is profoundly evident, we each have changed. And our presence has changed others. We have learned to accept love and give it. But better yet, we have learned that we deserve love. I will look around me today at others, and I will remember my growth and theirs depends on loving and being loved. I will reach out. I can make love new. Let go of the fear. Feel it, and then breathe it out. Let go of the frustration, the overwhelmed feelings, and the panic. Quiet yourself. Then pick one task, one simple thing to do. Then focus on only that. Or go to your calendar and circle today. Today is the only day you've got, and today is enough.
Action:If you're working on a project, break it down into components, and work on one small part. Don't think about the rest. If what's overwhelming you is a flurry of tasks and problems, make a list, then pick one thing and focus on doing that. Then cross it off your list and do another.
If you're going through a tough stretch in your life, don't think about all the days that loom ahead. Make whatever appointments and plans you need to make, then focus only on today. If you're experiencing something tough, you may want to break your days into smaller parts, such as hours, mornings, afternoons, and evenings. Don't think about facing anything more than that chunk of time. Then when you get to the next chunk, focus on that.,If the beast of anxiety starts roaring, quiet it by deliberately turning your attention to small steps.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/12-Step-Church-4-Teens-U-GodHigherpower-Not-Guilt/45210323086 ,
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Earthships4HealingCenters,Communities&Churches,sponsored by Casinos-http://AAA12StepC.C.C.Society.googlepages.com/home
I Volunteer and at Ground Zero too! Just got my Ordained Ministers Certificate! I could Marry You!!! Lol ;-)
Artist/writer.Published Books!! Self Help Writing Books4Teens,http://AAA12StepC.C.C.Society.googlepages.com/home
http://www.amazon.ca/s/ref=nb_sb_noss/186-3495481-5727637?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=ny-9-11canadianangel
Family History/Back Ground= High German, Kings (Black Forest),http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_rulers_of_Bavaria
Scotish with a Family Castle too,LOL -http://www.eileandonancastle.com/ and Hull,Yorkshire,UK
Same Bloodlines as Elizabeth IISome of the same Problems, too!! LOL
Dreamer!! I am spiritual, Not Religious!!! God/Higher Power not Guilt.Believe in the power of Prayer!!! Love to Dance, laugh,too!!
..Would be nice if you were mechanical, too. LOL Be My"Lone Ranger & Help me get out of Dodge"!!!
Go South tooooooooo, Cold in the winter. Hate shoveling snow. Out West BC/LasVegas/East
In the process of MOVING West to my BEST friends in Claresholm, Alberta who are not well and
visit but not live with my 90yr. Mother and brother in Powell River, BC. or my friends in Calgary.
I am from Marine Dr., White Rock, BC. Have a widowed sister in Peterborough, Ontario who I phone everyday.
My brother owns a trucking business in ONT. and like me loves travelling.
Been to Japan, crossed the States 6 times. Love my pets/fireplaces.Watching ELLEN & ETC.> UTube>British Movies, BBC TV shows,Comedy, Dramas etc.Hoping I can find someone who is like me.
Like to talk on the phone with YOU>Ph# Pls. We can use Googletalk or Majicjack.com -both work on the internet all over the World...
No Negative Thinking or Players,Romancescamers etc. Facial hair-Beards?? ?
"I don't think you're suddenly going to begin to look at the world with new eyes when you're 80 if you haven't been doing it when you're 30".
-Janice Clark We are creatures of habit as evidenced by our getting stuck in old viewpoints long after they have quit serving us. However, that fact doesn't restrict us for all time. Any-time we want to cultivate a new idea, an alternative approach to a situation, we are free to do so, we are capable of freshening our perspective at any age. We have all known some elderly men and women who have the spirit and enthusiasm of the very young. Unfortunately, we have also known the reverse. How sad to observe the forty or fifty year old person who has quit living. Their whining belies their age. Who will we be? The choice is always available to us. And we can remake it as often as we wish. What a relief to know that if we're old and resentful today, we still have the opportunity to be young and full of laughter tomorrow. We maybe can't do everything we used to do, but this decision is still in our power. I will open my eyes to whatever I choose to see today. Yesterday's experiences have only the power I give them.
Want to buy a bigger RV. Drive on H2O, Solar, Propane, Gas34 foot Tour Bus to Cross America without gasoline.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=481vND02lZ4&feature=list_related&playnext=1&list=SPFC5B665578FF2896
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHtXuTgQIyA ,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mZYllnDmLg ,http://www.youtube.com/user/h2oplasmaplug
Irondmax,http://hhocarcellkit.mikerosepro.com/tag/ironmax/,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=481vND02lZ4&feature=youtu.be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWAoyp7tHyE&list=UUEGe7GasoADRNz6wfHM91sQ&index=1&feature=plcp,http://hhotechnology.blogspot.ca/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIrypNkdsjk&feature=autoplay&list=UUEGe7GasoADRNz6wfHM91sQ&lf=plcp&playnext=2
HHO Spark Plug Part 1,2,3,4-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9NvboKL43Q&feature=player_embedded
http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&feature=fvwp&v=D3nPa7Y7EBs. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gDX_vVnBc5M
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RQNrFUnQmnw,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgOjT96GIzI
Something I'll have to look into in a near future.Earthship to live in.Nevada and Canada Summer! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2F1YSP2f_U http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N2so9hyNWxc,http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkbHR16FGpE,
MY MEDITATION FOR TODAY,. IS SPOT ON!! Love doesn't just sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread — re-made all the time, made new.--Ursula K. Le Guin We love to be loved; we love to be held; we love to be caressed. A show of appreciation we love too. And we love to know we've been heard. The friends, the spouses, the children in our lives want the same from us. Like a garden that needs water, sun, weeding to nurture the growth, so does love need attending to. To become whole and healthy people, we need tender nurturing. And we also need to give away what we get. Those we nurture will bless our growth. Love is dynamic, not static. It is always changing, and it always changes those it enfolds. Since coming into this program where the sharing of oneself, the open expression of love, is profoundly evident, we each have changed. And our presence has changed others. We have learned to accept love and give it. But better yet, we have learned that we deserve love. I will look around me today at others, and I will remember my growth and theirs depends on loving and being loved. I will reach out. I can make love new. Let go of the fear. Feel it, and then breathe it out. Let go of the frustration, the overwhelmed feelings, and the panic. Quiet yourself. Then pick one task, one simple thing to do. Then focus on only that. Or go to your calendar and circle today. Today is the only day you've got, and today is enough.
Action:If you're working on a project, break it down into components, and work on one small part. Don't think about the rest. If what's overwhelming you is a flurry of tasks and problems, make a list, then pick one thing and focus on doing that. Then cross it off your list and do another.
If you're going through a tough stretch in your life, don't think about all the days that loom ahead. Make whatever appointments and plans you need to make, then focus only on today. If you're experiencing something tough, you may want to break your days into smaller parts, such as hours, mornings, afternoons, and evenings. Don't think about facing anything more than that chunk of time. Then when you get to the next chunk, focus on that.,If the beast of anxiety starts roaring, quiet it by deliberately turning your attention to small steps.
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First Date
Walk on the beach with my dogs and go to a romantic comedy movie eat popcorn.
Talk about YOU.
James Garner and Lois Clarke: a true love story
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAm2kVKS6qA
Marriage and family[edit]
The Garners in 1961. Greta is on Garner's lap; Kim is looking out between Garner and his wife, Lois.
Garner was married to Lois Fleishman Clarke,[50][51] whom he met at an "Adlai Stevenson for President" rally in 1956. They married 14 days later on August 17, 1956. "We went to dinner every night for 14 nights. I was just absolutely nuts about her. I spent $77 on our honeymoon, and it about broke me."[11][52] According to Garner, "Marriage is like the Army; everyone complains, but you'd be surprised at the large number of people who re-enlist."[53]
When Garner and Clarke married, her daughter Kim from a previous marriage was seven years old and recovering from polio.[7] Garner had one daughter with wife Lois: Greta "Gigi" Garner.[7] In an interview in Good Housekeeping with Garner, his wife, and two daughters conducted at their home that was published in March 1976, Gigi's age was given as 18 and Kim's as 27.[7]
Garner died on July 19, 2014, less than one month prior to their 58th wedding anniversary.
Talk about YOU.
James Garner and Lois Clarke: a true love story
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAm2kVKS6qA
Marriage and family[edit]
The Garners in 1961. Greta is on Garner's lap; Kim is looking out between Garner and his wife, Lois.
Garner was married to Lois Fleishman Clarke,[50][51] whom he met at an "Adlai Stevenson for President" rally in 1956. They married 14 days later on August 17, 1956. "We went to dinner every night for 14 nights. I was just absolutely nuts about her. I spent $77 on our honeymoon, and it about broke me."[11][52] According to Garner, "Marriage is like the Army; everyone complains, but you'd be surprised at the large number of people who re-enlist."[53]
When Garner and Clarke married, her daughter Kim from a previous marriage was seven years old and recovering from polio.[7] Garner had one daughter with wife Lois: Greta "Gigi" Garner.[7] In an interview in Good Housekeeping with Garner, his wife, and two daughters conducted at their home that was published in March 1976, Gigi's age was given as 18 and Kim's as 27.[7]
Garner died on July 19, 2014, less than one month prior to their 58th wedding anniversary.
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Ph# Pls. Call after 7pm & Wkends.
We can use Googletalk or Majicjack.com
both work on the internet
all over the World...
Visiting Canada=Passport,Never been in Jail for Anything, $$$ in the bank, they check. Watch "Boarder Guards" That WILL GIVE You a Reality Check!!!! Lol..Ha
Spiritual friend, Positive life mate, partner having fun helping others & ME, too!!! LOL WANT to be Spoiled??? By Me.
Love the beach, renovating, fishing,painting etc. Spiritual NOT Religious, Democrat?, Meditates, Believes in the Power of Prayer))00((((Hugs))
Moving back to British Columbia, Alberta for the Summer and AZ or Nevada with the Walmart/Flying J Club, in Winters in a RV. Dream 4 slider that drives on: H2 ô, Gas, Propane,Natural Gas, Hydro-solar.wind etc. Driven across USA many times. Hoping your like My brothers & dad. Mechanical & Mr. Fix it..
Writing Movie Script/BOOKS to help my Societies to help teens. Facebook.com/12Step Church "God/Higherpower Not Guilt" Teen Angels helpinghelping Teens. Using Music, Art, Pets for healing =Coda
John Bradshaw-Acoa, fun etc.
Hoping to see you soon. Love Care))))))00(((()Hugs)) :
Love my pets/fireplaces.
Watching ELLEN & ETC.> UTube>British Movies, BBC TV shows,Comedy, Dramas etc.
Hoping I can find someone who is like me.
PS.
Just got my Ordained Ministers Certificate!
I could Marry You!!! Lol 
PS-
No Negative Thinking or Players,
Romancescamers etc.
facial hair-Beards?? ?
"I don't think you're suddenly going to begin to look at the world with new eyes when you're 80 if you haven't been doing it when you're 30".
--Janice Clark
We are creatures of habit as evidenced by our getting stuck in old viewpoints long after they have quit serving us. However, that fact doesn't restrict us for all time. Anytime we want to cultivate a new idea, an alternative approach to a situation, we are free to do so, we are capable of freshening our perspective at any age.
We have all known some elderly men and women who have the spirit and enthusiasm of the very young. Unfortunately, we have also known the reverse. How sad to observe the forty or fifty year old person who has quit living. Their whining belies their age. Who will we be? The choice is always available to us. And we can remake it as often as we wish.
What a relief to know that if we're old and resentful today, we still have the opportunity to be young and full of laughter tomorrow. We maybe can't do everything we used to do, but this decision is still in our power.
I will open my eyes to whatever I choose to see today. Yesterday's experiences have only the power I give them.
Want to buy a bigger RV.
Drive on H2O, Solar, Propane, Gas
34 foot Tour Bus to Cross America without gasoline.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=481vND02lZ4&feature=list_related&playnext=1&list=SPFC5B665578FF2896
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHtXuTgQIyA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mZYllnDmLg
http://www.youtube.com/user/h2oplasmaplug
Irondmax
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OWAoyp7tHyE&list=UUEGe7GasoADRNz6wfHM91sQ&index=1&feature=plcp
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=481vND02lZ4&feature=youtu.be
http://hhotechnology.blogspot.ca/
HHO Spark Plug Part 1,2,3,4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&feature=fvwp&v=D3nPa7Y7EBs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9NvboKL43Q&feature=player_embedded
I found this in ZPEnergy.com.
Something I'll have to look into in a near future.
Earthship to live in.
Nevada and Canada Summer!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkbHR16FGpE
RVingSnowbird4U
WoW!
MY MEDITATION FOR TODAY,. IS SPOT ON!!
Let go of the fear. Feel it, and then breathe it out. Let go of the frustration, the overwhelmed feelings, and the panic. Quiet yourself. Then pick one task, one simple thing to do. Then focus on only that. Or go to your calendar and circle today. Today is the only day you've got, and today is enough.
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